Possibly the toughest call you are going to make in the love game - is he your date or just a mate? Do you act on those signals and ask him out or do you play it safe and stay "just good friends"? Here are some clues to help you figure out the signals before you rush into asking him out. And what to do if he says no...
Remember, he's probably trying to figure out your signals too, before he makes a move! Are you giving out mixed messages as you check each other out? Hormones, surges of insecurity and self-doubt are the usual culprits that make us a bit wobbly, distorting what we really want to say. How annoying!
- he says no!
Even though you got turned down once, it doesn't mean it will happen every
temptation is to think he said no because you're not pretty enough or
smart or popular. This probably has very little to do with it at all,
and thinking that way will only make you feel bad. The most important
thing is that you were brave enough to ask him out in the first place!
he your date or just a mate? A tough call, but if you never ask you'll
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